Long term relationships are amazing. It means you have someone to share this beautiful life and wonderful memories with. But with a long term relationship, you can get stuck in the same routine everyday and with time, it begins to get boring.
So if you are in a long term relationship it is important to find ways to spice things up in the bedroom to make it exciting for both of you. Here are 10 ways to spice things in the bedroom.
How to spice things up in the bedroom
1. Be spontaneous
Do something out of the ordinary. Something you don’t usually do. Change your sex routine. If you always have sex at night with the lights off, try day time sex or sex with the lights on. Try a new or different sex position other than what you always do.
2. Talk it up (sexting, flirty messages)
Send them a naughty text message whiles they are at work about what you want to do to him or her tonight. This will get your partner all hot for you and they will definitely look forward to tonight with excitement.
Also, try whispering something dirty into their ears when you are out together. They will look forward to getting home with excitement.
3. Take a bath together
Taking a bath together is a sure way to spice things in the bedroom. You can relax in the tub together with some sexy songs playlist to set the mood. Even showering together can get the job done.
4. Massage
Get some sensual oil and massage your partner. No need to rush it. Take it slow, work their body from the top and work your way down.
5. Be handsy
Touch them during the day. Like a friendly smack on their butt, hug them from behind as they are doing the dishes and grab their bo*bs or butt. Kiss them and grab their as* as you kissing them.
6. Compliment them
Give your partner a compliment. Let them know you notice the little changes.
7. Shop in the adult section
If you really want to spice things up in the bedroom, then shopping in the adult section is one way to go. You can go in with your partner and shop for some vibrators and sex toys.
If you are not comfortable going to a sex shop, you can just sit in the comfort of your home and order online.
8. Role play
Pretend to be different people in the bedroom. If you are tired of having the same old sex with the same person everyday, why not switch things up and try role playing in the bedroom?
9. Lunch hour quickie
Meet at home during lunch hour for a quickie. This is so exciting because you know you have to hurry and get back to work.
10. Watch p*rn together
Watching p*rn together is another way to spice things up in the bedroom. Get some p*rn videos and watch them together in bed. It is a sure way to get things started.
Do however note that just because your partner is willing to watch p*rn together doesn’t mean they will want to do everything they see in the video.
Watch together to get you in the mood and get things rolling but remember to respect their boundaries too.
Long lasting relationships don’t just happen, you have to put in some work to make them happen. Try some of these things to spice up your relationship.
See also:
13 flirty text messages for your partner
5 ways you are ruining your sex life
5 romantic surprises for your partner
